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Moving Forward

I have been spending more and more time in our infant rooms at work and find that it's not painful anymore.  In fact, it's been encouraging to me and reinforcing how much I love young infants and miss the baby stages now that Charlotte is CLEARLY not a baby.  "My do MYself."  (Excuse me.)

That being said, we're moving forward.  We made an appointment with an RE here in Milwaukee to figure out our next step with regards to getting our 4 embabies in Chicago here in Wisconsin with us and hope to do a transfer some time in the coming months.  Sadly, the first available appointment isn't until February so we have lots of time to reflect and get excited before we dive right back into the world of hormones, anxiety, and battles with insurance.



We are embracing change and taking the leap.  :)
I'm not sure how much or when we'll post updates about the process, but I hope to share our story openly.  I know I'll never have the surprise pregnancy and I think I've made (some) peace with that.  I also know that there are a few of you out there in the same boat, looking for strength and inspiration and if I can provide that by sharing our experience, I would write a novel.



Send us your positive vibes as we mentally prepare for the journey ahead.
XO
Mama Porch

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