Not drinking is hard.

"Are you sure you can't drink?"
"You're not pregnant yet."
"Once you get pregnant, you can't drink for 9 months; better enjoy it now."

And I thought that once the wedding was over, I'd be okay. But then came Saturday afternoon. And today was the Packer game. I'm seriously in awe of how women are able to give up this part of their lifestyle. I'm by no means in a need of a meeting, but I truly feel like drinking is just part of who we are; a good dark beer is synonymous with fall for me. SERIOUSLY?! Oktoberfest is the weekend of my 30th birthday and there's a fighting chance I won't be "allowed" to partake. I'm trying instead to cut back. But we'll see what my doctor says when I see him (hopefully this week!).

I'm so excited for fall and all that it brings with it -- including those amazing dark beers but also decorating for the season. Just placed a Scentsy order for some new yummy fall/winter scents. I love fall. Football should just be a season.

Cheers (shit),

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